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I’m tired of talking about feminism to men.

I’m tired of explaining to men that the feminist movement will, in fact, benefit them as well as women. I’m tired of trying to hawk gender equality like I’m some kind of car salesman showing off a shiny new sedan, explaining all of its bells and whistles. I’m tired of smiling through a thousand thoughtless microaggressions, tired of providing countless pieces of evidence, tired of being questioned on every. Single. Damn. Thing.I’m tired of proving that microaggressions exist, tired of proving that I’m unfairly questioned and asked for proof. For a movement that’s centered around the advancement and empowerment of women, why do I feel like I’m supposed to spend so damn much of my time carefully considering how what I say and do will be taken by men?

I’m tired of men who insert themselves into feminist spaces with claims of hurt feelings. I’m tired of men who somehow manage to make every issue about them. I’m tired of men like the one who recently stopped by a friend’s Facebook thread in order to call feminism “c*nty”, then lecture the women involved for being too “hostile” in their responses to him. I’m tired of men telling me that my understanding of feminism and rape culture are wrong, as if these aren’t things that I have studied intensely. I’m tired of men who claim to be feminist allies, then abuse that position to their own advantage. I’m so fucking exhausted by the fact that I know that I will have to, at some point in this piece, mention that I understand that not all men are like that. I will have to note that some men are good allies. And all of those things are true! And all of you good allies get cookies! But honestly,I’m tired of handing out cookies to people just because they’re decent fucking human beings.
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frogmanslightschool:

Sainte-Chapelle
Sainte-Chapelle is my favorite French cathedral because the stained glass is sublime. The first time I visited it was too dark to get anything proper, and I’d only just started shooting. When I had a short time in Paris years later, I vowed to take better pictures.
It was still really dark and I didn’t want it to be blurry with a longer exposure. Besides increasing the ISO, making yourself a human tripod is a good way to go. Tuck your arms at your sides, tighten your core and spread your legs. That, plus shooting in RAW, meant I could do a lot of shadow recovery and get the shot I wanted.
Photo by Kaitlin
You can find me here:[ Tumblr | Website | 500px | Instagram | Amazon Wishlist ]

I love this place.

frogmanslightschool:

Sainte-Chapelle

Sainte-Chapelle is my favorite French cathedral because the stained glass is sublime. The first time I visited it was too dark to get anything proper, and I’d only just started shooting. When I had a short time in Paris years later, I vowed to take better pictures.

It was still really dark and I didn’t want it to be blurry with a longer exposure. Besides increasing the ISO, making yourself a human tripod is a good way to go. Tuck your arms at your sides, tighten your core and spread your legs. That, plus shooting in RAW, meant I could do a lot of shadow recovery and get the shot I wanted.

Photo by Kaitlin

You can find me here:
[ Tumblr | Website | 500px | Instagram | Amazon Wishlist ]

I love this place.